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By Nate Feldman Today, I was at a yard sale in New Tripoli, PA, where I was selling my self-made postcards, magazines, and books, plus a collection of used books.  I had one of my best sales days ever.  I sold two copies of Sara and Sofie's Ginormous Potato, a self-published book, two postcards I made, plus four used books.  Though this isn't much, this was a PR (personal record) in sales for me at an event.  I was very pleased.  I was so pleased I treated myself to a nice lunch, had a nice run around New Tripoli after the event, and got some nice treats while shopping. Then, I came home.  I could tell my mother was in a foul mood.  She wasn't happy that my sister and brother-in-law are making us watch their cat while they go to Dewey Beach, Delaware on a trip.  So, she wanted to put the cat in one of my rooms.  The problem is my sister and her husband refuse to talk to me no matter what I do.  So, I insisted that if she is unhappy with ...
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Not invited to holiday events

By Nate Feldman My family planned holiday dinners and events without letting me know.  This was not unexpected, but it is unfortunate as I used to love the holiday season and now absolutely dread it.  I want to enjoy life and its pleasures, and on my own I do, but an abusive family can take away those opportunities from people.
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More Gaslighting and Verbal Abuse

  By Nate Feldman Anne Feldman is not someone who can engage in civil dialogue about any subject without resorting to childish name calling and gaslighting.  When she disagrees, she says that I am "hyper" or "angry," and when I assure her that I am just trying to have a conversation, she insists that I am an angry person who is angry at her and the entire world.  This tactic is a way to deflect from engaging in the discussion respectfully and turns into personal attacks. Once the personal attacks begin, all bets are off.  She has said that "no woman will fuck me," and that I am a "fucking Jew," and that I am a "fucking prick," and that "no one likes me."  This type of rhetoric are the signs of a deeply depressed and disturbed person.  And, it's unfortunate that I am the son of a person like this.  
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Anne Feldman is a gaslighting abusive mother

Anne Feldman is someone who after cooking something will insist that we all praise it as "good cooking.". The meal will end, and she will say, "wasn't this great?" Or, "I made such an amazing dish tonight if I do say so myself." However, when I cook something, she refuses to eat it.  She has openly told me that "your food is disgusting" while making gag faces.   Now, if I said her food was bad or refused to eat it, she will say it is proof that I hate her and that I am bad and was always bad since I was an child. All attempts at defending myself or saying something I did was good is seen as me being hateful or hurtful. This is the unfortunate person I have as a "mother."
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More Threats

 By Nate Feldman My abusive mother, Anne L. Feldman, continues to insult and threaten me.  She tells me my food is disgusting and that I should lose my children.  She routinely embarrasses me and attempts to show me in the darkest light to everyone.  THIS ABUSE MUST STOP! 
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Dealing with Verbal Abuse

 By Nate Feldman My mother, Anne Feldman, is an abusive person.  She threatens me all of the time and insults me in front of my family.  She is very careful not to show this side of her in front of others.  I am going to have to, unfortunately, seek professional help to deal with this situation, but it is difficult because of the costs.  I contacted a mental health professional who told me even with insurance, she costs $140 an hour, something not easy when you aren't swimming in cash.  I will be using this blog as a way of communicating my situation.  
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